Hate you...
Wednesday, March 19, 2008 by hope
Two words when heard.. pierce through our soul.. makes us sad and teary.. even when we know that the person doesn't mean it.. it still makes us upset.. then why do we use them in first place.. sometimes out of anger.. sometimes in pain.. and sometimes intentionally.. just to hurt the one we love.. right..
Some people say you can hate only those you love.. yea, makes sense.. how can you hate one whom you don't love/like.. you can hate only those whose acts.. words and thoughts affects you in certain way.. right.. but can you really hate the person you loved once? Doesn't matter how much he/she have hurt you and how much you want to hate him/her.. but still you cant.. yes! you can stop talking.. you can pretend that they mean nothing to you.. you can hurt them with your words.. but its not hate its the pain.. you feel.. coz you loved them.. coz they are still close to your heart.. coz you still miss them.. but to hate is not possible.. coz love is just loving.. no space for hate.. love is always forgiving.. and if you can hate then i think it wasn't love in first place.. No.. love and hate don't go hand in hand.. yes! love and pain do..
Few things in life never changes.. one of them is love.. once in love.. always in love.. doesn't matter how far or different way you will go.. that feeling will always be there.. time will change your priorities but still somewhere in you love will shine always..
So.. how can you hate the one you love.. how can you hate the one who loves you.. if you cant and if you don't.. then why to use such painful words .. you can part with nice words too.. believe me parting is much easier when done with nice words.. else regrets flow from the bottom of heart and haunts you for a long long time..
Always leave your love ones with nice words.. who knows its the last time you talking to them..
A friend was cursing her love over the phone.. and i heard it all.. :( felt so bad.. don't know why..
Song of the moment: Woh lamhe.. woh baatein.. koi na jaane.. thi kaise raatein.. ooohh barsaatein.. woh bheegi bheegi yaadein..
Some people say you can hate only those you love.. yea, makes sense.. how can you hate one whom you don't love/like.. you can hate only those whose acts.. words and thoughts affects you in certain way.. right.. but can you really hate the person you loved once? Doesn't matter how much he/she have hurt you and how much you want to hate him/her.. but still you cant.. yes! you can stop talking.. you can pretend that they mean nothing to you.. you can hurt them with your words.. but its not hate its the pain.. you feel.. coz you loved them.. coz they are still close to your heart.. coz you still miss them.. but to hate is not possible.. coz love is just loving.. no space for hate.. love is always forgiving.. and if you can hate then i think it wasn't love in first place.. No.. love and hate don't go hand in hand.. yes! love and pain do..
Few things in life never changes.. one of them is love.. once in love.. always in love.. doesn't matter how far or different way you will go.. that feeling will always be there.. time will change your priorities but still somewhere in you love will shine always..
So.. how can you hate the one you love.. how can you hate the one who loves you.. if you cant and if you don't.. then why to use such painful words .. you can part with nice words too.. believe me parting is much easier when done with nice words.. else regrets flow from the bottom of heart and haunts you for a long long time..
Always leave your love ones with nice words.. who knows its the last time you talking to them..
A friend was cursing her love over the phone.. and i heard it all.. :( felt so bad.. don't know why..
Song of the moment: Woh lamhe.. woh baatein.. koi na jaane.. thi kaise raatein.. ooohh barsaatein.. woh bheegi bheegi yaadein..
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how can you hate one whom you don't love/like
TRRRUUEEE..!
tension mat le.. ppl say such things in anger..
wonderfully expressed :)
we happen to hurt people we love even unintentionally when we are in anger. But thats not so easy for them to handle this pain they bear because of us.
m also heard such word....but as i remenber m nevr told this word to anyone,bcoz v can usenot interested or other words...i never guess what they feel when used 'hate'.....
but u know, even out of anger...i never said those words to anybody :P
Remember,
Hating hurts the one who hates.
Different thoughts flows in my mind..:)
Take care
~Ali
anirudh Yes.. but you cant hate the one you loved once is true too :P
abhishek JI :)
lena Ye.. we do that unintentionally :( Thanks girl..
story teller It feels so bad.. glad you didnt used those words ever..
divya Now that like a cutie pie na :P
rohit So right..
ali ..and those thoughts are..??
Wonderful expressions!Heartily agree with you :)