13 comments:

On September 24, 2008 at 10:05 PM Charu said...

On the ideal side of it... it should not ... but u never know because both the sides need to be mature enough to understand why certain things happened ... I guess it depends on the person who has to disclose smthin ... how comfortable he/she is with hiding that truth!

Have been reading your blogs for quite sometime ... really enjoy them ... keep writing!


On September 24, 2008 at 10:45 PM Lena said...

i would prefer to talk everything out, because sooner or later if you dont say/show enough it might create problems.
So i dont think much transparency could bring any troubles, but then again depends on individuals :)


On September 24, 2008 at 10:58 PM Anks said...

yes, it does.... timing is important... when should you be transparent..... and when not...


On September 24, 2008 at 11:43 PM Jeeves said...

Transperency depends on the person in the relationship. Some people cant handle plain truth. Why spoil a relationship in that case. While it is good to be transperent, situation demands at times to be less transparent.


On September 25, 2008 at 12:03 AM hope said...

charu welcome girl.. yeah right agree with ya it depends on person.. coz I believe that there is no such thing like an ideal or perfect in this world.. thankyou charu.. :)

lena the much i know you girl.. I know you will always choose the perfect option.. but at times its just not good to be too transparent.. basically as other things this one also depends on the situation.. right..

anks after a long time :) hope you enjoying life.. yes!! agree with ya girl..

jeeves right jeeves.. thats what i think trasparency is good but at times its the situation which stops us from doing so.. and in that case we shn't have to feel guilty.. right *smiles*


On September 25, 2008 at 12:08 AM Lucifer said...

its vy relative...depends on who d ppl in d realtionship r n how strong d relationship is...


On September 25, 2008 at 12:18 AM hope said...

well even in the strong relationships at times one can choose the other option mayz.. if not for anything else may be just to save the other one from hurt.. right?


On September 25, 2008 at 1:02 AM Lucifer said...

well depends on wat d truth is!!!


On September 25, 2008 at 1:56 AM Anirudh 'Lallan' Choudhry said...

yes it does.. for me it has done.. !


On September 25, 2008 at 3:52 AM hope said...

mayz ye.. thats what i said depends on situation..

anirudh *sigh*


On September 25, 2008 at 9:06 AM Anonymous said...

mayb it does, but i rather face dos probs tan hide it away 4m him , watever it b .
& as u guys said , yeah..timings do matter, still....if its THE ONE I LOVE , ;D , i wldnt wnt 2 play it by any rule. thngs may nt b vry smooth , but i prefer it dis way . wen u hv enuf faith n ur luv & trust 4 each oter , thngs can b wrkded out


On September 30, 2008 at 8:32 PM Adisha said...

With regards to brutal truth - It's like do you want to say EVERYTHING just to feel light, or do you wanna assuage your guilt. Either ways it's kinda selfish, don't you think ?!

On the other hand, what's the point of ANY relationship if you can't be yourself? If you have to work hard, change or lie about everything ( feelings ) just to keep someone else happy, it's not worth it anyways ...

So I guess I vote for transparency. It's just easier for everyone all around.


On October 3, 2008 at 10:32 AM Anonymous said...

i think too much transperancy can be harmful as bothr awaire of their weekness.

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